The Hidden Cost of Always Being the Smartest Person in the Room
- Belle Sionzon
- Sep 16
- 3 min read
Ever feel like you’re the only one in your business who really gets it?
You’re sharp. Capable. A problem-solving machine. But if you’re the one with all the answers, here’s a spicy truth:
You might be the one slowing everything down.
Let’s talk about why being the smartest person in the room isn’t a flex—it’s a liability. Especially if you’re a business owner trying to grow.
Smart doesn’t scale
Here’s the thing: in the early days, being the go-to genius works. It’s how you land clients, impress stakeholders, and make fast decisions.
But as your business grows? That same dynamic becomes a bottleneck.
Every time a team member brings you a problem and you jump in to fix it, you reinforce a loop: they rely on you. You feel needed (yay, ego!), but now you’re the single point of failure (boo, burnout).
Worse? You kill initiative. Your team stops thinking for themselves because they know you’ll do it better or faster.
Smart doesn’t scale. Systems do. And empowered people definitely do.
The real price? Your freedom and growth
Let’s do the math.
If you solve 10 problems a day that your team could’ve figured out with the right support, that’s not leadership. That’s babysitting.
And it comes at a cost:
❌ You’re stuck in reactive mode instead of building the business
❌ Your team never levels up
❌ You can’t take a real holiday without taking your laptop
❌ Every decision still flows through you
Sound familiar? You’re not alone. We see it with smart founders all the time.
The good news? You can fix it. Here’s how.
Step 1: Stop answering every question
This is the golden rule: just because you can solve it, doesn’t mean you should.
Next time someone asks you, “What should I do about XYZ?” try this instead:
“What do you think we should do?”
Then pause. Smile. Let the silence do the heavy lifting.
They might fumble. That’s okay. Your job isn’t to be a genius on demand. It’s to build a team that doesn’t need you to be.
Step 2: Give them decision-making tools
Want your team to think more like you? Give them the frameworks you use.
Try:
Decision rights: What can they decide on their own? What needs your input?
SOPs and checklists: So they’re not starting from scratch every time
Project post-mortems: Help them review what worked and what didn’t so next time they’re sharper
Remember: most people don’t avoid decisions because they’re lazy—they avoid them because they’re afraid of getting it wrong.
Your job is to build confidence and reduce the risk.
Step 3: Praise initiative, not perfection
If your team’s only reward is “not being wrong,” you’ll get safe, small thinking.
Instead, praise the effort. Celebrate the experiments. Back them up even when the solution isn’t perfect. When people feel psychologically safe to try and fail, they grow.
And when they grow? You get your time back.
Step 4: Systemise your smarts
If you’ve got expertise that’s pure gold, capture it. Don’t hoard it.
Record a Loom video walking through your process
Build a shared knowledge base in Notion or ClickUp
Create templates, scripts, or “if this, then that” guides
You want your smarts to become part of the business, not stuck in your brain.
Step 5: Get comfortable with being unnecessary
This one’s spicy—but it’s the goal.
The most successful business owners we coach aren’t the busiest. They’re the ones who’ve built businesses that don’t need them every second of the day.
If you’re still solving every problem, making every decision, and being the hero—then you’re not running a business.
You’re running a high-stress job.
It’s time to upgrade.
From genius to guide
Here’s your mindset shift:
Stop trying to be the smartest person in the room.
Start being the person who builds other smart people.
That’s how you grow a business that’s not just successful—but sustainable. One that runs smoothly whether you’re in the room or not.
And guess what? You’ll enjoy it more too. Less stress, more space, better results.
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Download our free Team Success Sync—a simple tool to help you set clear expectations, build decision confidence, and create a rhythm where your team thrives (without relying on you 24/7).
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